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Tributes for Tammy
Thanks for all the updates. That is a wonderful surprise for her....what a good deed! Please let her know
that I have been thinking of her an awful lot...not only in general, but every day when I come home and pass by the Sweetapple.
Send her our love. Hilary Miller (and Olivia, the Great Dane and Scarlett the Chihuahua and cats)
OMG... that made
me cry. I always heard that Bo was a nice guy, but to do something like that shows he has a heart as big as could be. WOW.
BTW
- I think Steve Wallace played for the 49ers with Joe Montana, Steve Young, Jerry Rice (and a lot of other good players)
and coached by Bill Walsh when they were dominating the NFL.
~ Bill Mullin
I was going to call her this afternoon to talk to her about her visit Sat. How exciting for her! And I wanted to tell her
Daisy won a medal at the Dachshund festival for the wheelchair race! I was so looking forward to Sat. Please keep me posted.
Betsy
Lynn
.....and I hope she is sleeping peacefully when the Lord lifts her up! We will miss you Tammy!
May God bless you, Tammy and fold you into His arms forever.
Anita Himburg
Oh Margene, my heart is truly breaking right now for her, David, and those of you who know her so well. What a comfort
it brings to my heart to know that she trusts in God's plan for her life. I will try to drop off a CD and you can deliver
it, if not for her then for her husband. I'm praying for peace for her and her family. Thank you so much for all you do.
Alisa Priddy
Dear Margene,
Thank you so much for continuing to inform all of us what is going on. I say special prayers for Tammy
every night. I thought she might get better, and then yesterday I had the feeling that it was time to just pray that this
goes peacefully. I will continue to do so. I am very sorry. I know this must be especially hard on all of you who work for
Tammy.
All of you are in my prayers, Laura Rosen Maisy and Charlie's "Mom"
You are so right, Monique. I don't know you, but I could just feel your love for Tammy and there are so very many of us
who feel just the way you do. She was so positive when our precious little coton de tulear (Coty) was diagnosed with epilepsy
- so good to take all the time in the world to explain the treatment, etc.- even those times when I knew she did not feel
well (though she would not let me know that). She is a unique person for sure, maybe one of the most courageous people I have
ever met.
I wanted to share one of my "Tammy" stories. Late one Friday afternoon, about 5:45, our puppy was running in our basement,
and yelped and started limping. We could not imagine what was wrong, but he continued to cry as I tried to examine his paws,
legs, etc. and could not find anything wrong. I called Sweet Apple knowing that I probably would not get an answer so late,
but I did and it was Tammy. I said, "I know you are probably on your way out, but this is what is happening ..." She didn't
even hesitate, she said come right on out and she would wait. Being Friday afternoon the traffic was horrible and it was another
45 minutes before we got there. She was waiting to examine our puppy. She determined nothing was stuck in his paw, but that
he must have stepped on something as he was running - she gave him a pain shot and almost immediately he quit crying. It was
7:00 by the time all was said and done. We, of course, thanked her over and over for staying to take care of our dog, but
she just assured us she was just glad she was still there - and then after all that, when we left and tried to pay she just
said, go, and forget it!! What a doctor!
Also, we have had a lot of fun talking Auburn football. Everybody in my family graduated from Auburn, so as soon as Tammy
and I discovered this, be knew we had a War Eagle bond. I am so thrilled that Bo Jackson did what he did. I know that made
her day.
Let's all keep praying.
Rowena Head
Hi Margene,
Thank you for your continued updates, hard as they are to read. Your time and thoughtfulness with Tammy,
and all of us, means more than we can say.
I'm going to send a separate email with Birthday greetings to Tammy in the
hope that she will be awake and smiling when you deliver the next batch of cards and notes.
Thank you again and we
continue to pray for Tammy.
Bill & Linda Gentry
Dear Tammy,
We hope this finds you in good spirits and we wish you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!... and hope Auburn wins
by 100 points in your honor!!
We love you and look forward to seeing you again. You mean more to us than we could ever
express.
Love,
Bill, Linda, Tucker, Tessa, & Tasha Gentry
I can say nothing useful. My thoughts are all I have, and they are with her. Maurizio
Dear All,
I have known Tammy since her days at Etowah Vet Hospital – then when she was with that other vet on Bell’s
Ferry Road (I don’t remember his name) – then with Dr. Malsby at Suburban. During this time she was also working
at the ER for Cherokee County. I have A LOT of animals and without a doubt, I always wanted Tammy to look after them. Not
only is she a marvelous vet, but she’s is truly a beautiful person. I can remember on one occasion that I had to make
the difficult decision of having a cat put down and it was the weekend. I called the ER to see if Tammy was working and fortunately,
she was. If I had to have an animal put down, I always wanted her to do it. I knew she would share the sadness of losing "one
of my children". When Tammy moved to SweetApple, it was a bit too far for me to drive, so I had to change vets. I still kept
in touch through people at Sherry Weaver’s clinic and through our hairdresser. I called her a few times, but I knew
she was too busy to chat, so I just left messages.
I will continue to pray for Tammy. There is nothing that God cannot do. My prayer chain is also praying for her.
Thank you all for sharing your stories. Thanks, Margene, for keeping us updated.
Marsha Skiles
Your news was received with mixed emotion. Sad to know the end is near and we will no longer share her company
here on earth. Happy that she will soon find life without pain and suffering. Knowing Tammy has only strengthened our
belief in God --- she truly is an angel sent to earth for just a short time but her life and energy has impacted all who
know her.
We all wish to thank you so much for the kindness you shared on all our behalf to Tammy and David. You
always had just the right words to say about how Tammy was doing. Your words exactly capture the essence of who she is.
It was like she was telling us herself.
Again, thank you so much.
Dan & Mona Huffman
Thank you, Margene, for always keeping us in the loop in regards to Tammy. I told you already: there are angels on Earth:
YOU!
Cody, my black lab and I, have lit a candle every single day for Tammy since learning about her illness. She is one incredible
lady.
Margene, please let Tammy know (via David?) that she is NEVER alone.
We all love her dearly.
Boone Dunham
I remember the first time I met her I was actually contemplating changing vets because I wasn’t very fond of the
vet that was there at the time. I had to bring Boo (my black cocker) in for his next set of shots and decided to go ahead
and make the appointment at Sweet Apple. I was so very happy that I did. Tammy made me feel so comfortable and I could tell
that she truly loved our pets. When I left there I felt great and very comfortable bringing Boo back there. About two years
ago we got a new puppy named Remi and I was excited for Tammy to meet her. Of course they hit it off and Remi loved her.
I too hope and pray that we will all see her doing what she loves best some day really soon and will continue to pray for
a miracle to come her way.
Go Auburn !!!!!!!!
Judy
Judy Merritt
The Mullin Family
I met Tammy for the first time after moving to Georgia from California. After moving here, I had seen a vet referred by
a neighbor . This vet told me my Cocker Spaniel Joey had an enlarged lymph node and may have cancer. Needless to say, I was
hysterical-knowing nobody here, and fearing that this doggie who I love more than anything may be sick. I by chance in seeking
out a second opinion later that evening, found Tammy as she was working at an emergency clinic I had found in the phone book
I took Joey there to get another opinion. Tammy with her bright smile, sparking eyes, and calm demeanor, said, "no this dog
does not have cancer," he is the healthiest cocker spaniel I have ever seen! From that point on, she held an especially special
place in my heart . She not only was Joey ( who is still here!) and now Max's vet, but she was a dear friend. There are no
words to describe the manner in which she loved my doggies and cared for them like they were her own. She is an incredibly
special and dear person who has left a "pawprint" on my heart. I love you Tammy.
Carie Lorman
Wow, what a true testament the Tammy stories have been. Tammy is one of the most genuine and loving people I have ever
met. After my first meeting with Tammy to have her do a new pet exam I came home and told my wife that we have definitely
found the Vet for our puppie. I said to her there is something so genuine and different about Tammy. Our new 10 week old yellow
Lab (Abbey) would be in the best of hands with Tammy. For as many dog's as you must see every week, month and year I was so
surprised when I walked into Sweet Apple with Abbey and you would walk out, see her and know her by name.
Tammy has been our vet for several years and saw me through the loss of my two precious kitties, Mimi and Mish Mish. I
was stunned at the genuine love that she showed my pets. She truly understood how incredibly attached I was to them.
I now have two more kitties. One was considered feral and Tammy showed her the same love that you all have seen. Then I
got a kitten - a Siamese. He adored Tammy. She was thrilled that I managed to find a new kitty who was able to bring laughter
and joy back into my home - she knew how sad we had been after losing our two kitties.
Our kitten absolutely loved Tammy. And those of you with cats know that they don't like going to the vet and will usually
just suffer through it. Well, Suki got so excited every time he saw Tammy and, of course, she would gush over him - they made
quite a pair. As she was giving him his shots, she said - imagine this - he is actually purring as I give him the injection.
We both just laughed.
Well, Suki had to go in for his surgeries and, didn't mind at all that he had to contend with Tammy's chemo schedule. A
few weeks after his surgery, he kept limping around and holding his foot up. I decided that I should take him in. I did and,
of course, he demoed the foot for Tammy and she gave him lots of sympathy. She said to check back in a couple of weeks. Well,
by that time, she was not in the clinic and Suki had to see one of the other docs. Well, after that visit, he stopped holding
his foot up. And, miraculously got better. My husband and I both concluded that he had been acting. When he went in and didn't
get to see his Doctor Tammy, he found out what normal vet visits are like - just not the same at all - for pet or owner!
Tammy, we love you and are praying for you. If you get a chance to read this, Suki has been helping me type - he is right
here. So if there are any typos, he made them, not me!
Suki, Cici and Signe Maximous
The following reply is from my friend, Tammy Shuman:
Tammy you are such a wonderful, compassionate, and kind person. You truly have love in your heart for animals and people.
You are someone that I truly admire for being able to take the good and the bad thats comes along with the territory of being
a vet. Your passion and kindness is what makes going to you a good experience. I wanted to share the story that comes to mind
of when I first met you. Here it goes:
About 7 years ago our kids we're just old enough to start leaving them with family members. My husband and I haven't taken
a vacation together (about 2 years) since having our children and we planned to go on a deep fishing trip for a long weekend
with some acquaintances. I remember we we're so excited and truly looked forward to getting away. The hour before we left
potential disaster occured. My best friend "WOODY" got out the house (which she never does) and went after the UPS guy, she
bit the tire and as he drove away her tooth got stuck. The next thing I know I see WOODY flying through the air and blood
all aver her face. I immediately took her to you, Tammy. I was so upset and didn't know whether I should leave for our trip
or not. You immediately looked at her and took x-rays and said she would be fine but the UPS tire my not. Needles to say,
you we're right and we had a wonderful trip.
One of the funniest times was when you told me to put fat girl "WOODY" on a green bean diet. I knew me and WOODY we're
going to have some issues but I tried it anyway. Needless to say, WOODY won this battle. Due to her rebellion to the green
beans, she quit eating- which didn't harm her in any way. After a couple of days I called you about her lack of eating and
you said, "Oh well, she's fat, happy, old and loves her life - why change it". That one statement said everything about you...
to live and enjoy your life to the fulliest .
As my friend Monique said, you never failed to take in the countless animals that my children or her children would find
injured or hurt - turtles, birds, mice, etc... Whenever they would find something they would say immediately "we need to take
it to Dr. Pendergrass so she can fix it and let it go". You are not only our Vet but you are also a friend.
Through the years you have shown that compassion, humor, and love each and everytime I brought WOODY in - always kneeling
down and talking to her (because she is fat and hard to lift) so she would feel safe and comfortable. You always had a smile
on your face and gave reassurance.
Tammy, I wanted to let you know that your are honored, loved, and respected. You are in my thoughts and prayers EVERYDAY
and I fill truly honored to know you.
Sincerely,
Tammy Shuman - WOODY's MOM
Tammy for our family is more than an Auburn fan, she is a Horse
Person.............I knew I had found the perfect Vet. She keeps on top of
the welfare of all my equine pets though they have never come to Sweetapple.
My dogs insist on ALL going for EVERY visit to the vet together even if only
one has to have their nails clipped, all of them have to go see Tammy. She
even managed to win over 'BB' the standoffish Chihuahua .
Tammy's selflessness and compassion for me was very apparent when she first
met Dr.Horowitz. She was thrilled with his bedside manner and outlook and
the two of us shared many talks about their relationship. However when they
first met his daughter was going through the illness and eventual death of
her "Best Friend", her horse. Tammy agonized trying to decide how to help
his daughter cope with her loss despite her impending surgeries. She had so
much love and concern for the girl and her horse that she had never met,
that was Tammy!
All the love and prayers she has shared for so many years will continue to
surround her and bring her comfort..........
Susan Church
I am so surprised that there are so many Tammy Stories, she always made my family feel so important with our needs, I truly
felt like we were the only ones with any problems and getting all her love and attention. How amazing that one beautiful woman
could make so many of us feel that special all at the same time!
Amen, they must need a Heck of a Vet in Animal Heaven!
Susan Church
Hi Margene,
Have you received any word about Tammy? She is in our thoughts and prayers! She is such an awesome lady... and will be
deeply missed.
Thank you!
Joyce, Bob, Bonnie and Angie Stevenson
(Frosty, Bubba, Oscar, Rocky, Bella, Lucy Lou, Lola, Choloe, Phoebe, Tessa, Blondie and last but not least our newest family
member Jake)
When I brought our latest addition, Benny, to see Tammy she laughed at my wondering how a six-week-old kitten could show
up in our basement, since he was feral and had to make his way through woods and/or across a busy highway to get here. She
was not surprised at all that he came to live with the other "O'Kelley Cats." She said he "just knew where to go."
At that time I had no idea that Tammy was ill. I don't know if she knew that I didn't know. But she wasn't focusing on
herself, only on taking care of this new kitten and asking about the others, whose names she always remembered.
My husband James, and all our babies, Ralph, Josh, Willie, and Ben, and I all love Tammy and thank you David, for sharing
her with us.
Jean O'Kelley
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